“ The most beautiful thing you can wear is confidence.”
Confidence is not something that can be learned like a set of rules; confidence is a state of mind. To reach that state of mind you need to reveal who you are.
“ Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” Helen Keller
People who are optimistic are more committed to their goals, are more successful in achieving their goals, are more satisfied with their lives, and have better mental and physical health when compared to more pessimistic people.
Life is a mixture of positives and negatives. The optimists are using negative feedback to fuel to speed up their journey of success. Whereas pessimistic live in that negative spoiling their well being. So live as an optimist admiring present with ignoring and learning from the negatives.
Learning is a life long process. All our experiences are giving a new lesson for life. These lessons can be accepted or rejected. If we are rejecting, we may commit the same mistake again without any alteration. And that may lead to a negative impact on your life. To avoid it always be a learner. Learn for practical use. So always be a learner to get a confidence boost up in your life.
3. Explore what you have in your hand
Every human being is having a number of qualities and abilities. These are unique to each one. When it identifies and using it for a good result. You may be feeling pride in your mind. It will give a hick in your confidence
4. Be smart enough to be different, be strong enough to stand alone
Creating an identity is important in creating good health. It doesn’t mean that you have to concentrate on your physical appearance. It includes both physical and mental health. With your abilities your identity is unique.
Instead of mimicking others to create an identity, you just focus on your unique talents and learn more about standing alone.
5. Tackle your emotions
Developing ways to give time and space to our difficult emotions is especially important right now. If you don’t have practice tolerating discomfort and harnessing unwieldy feelings into something manageable, there’s a good chance you’re having a really hard time right now
“Emotions are adaptive and useful to us,” John Grych, Ph.D., professor of psychology at Marquette University, tells SELF. “Tuning into them helps you recognize what you might need at the moment and allows you to act on those observations.”
Everyone wants to be in their comfort zone. The comfort zone doesn’t give you any kinds of challenges to boost your confidence level. When we are moving out of it, we have to face our fears and overcome them. This act may give a real feeling of self-esteem and self-pride which cannot be given by any comfort zone.
To conquer your limits, you have to accept criticism about you. Use this criticism to learn how you can improve yourself.
A little rejection is inevitable, but if you’re willing to keep trying, you will see both progress and results.
7. Keep Calm
Keep Calm and Carry On was a motivational poster produced by the British government in 1939 in preparation for World War II. The poster was intended to raise the morale of the British public, threatened with widely predicted mass air attacks on major cities. Like that when we are able to calm ourselves, we will be able to enhance our morale and be able to reflect ourselves in a most influencing manner.
But it’s important that you remain calm but assertive if you feel like someone is trying to bully you.
8. Stand up for your rights
Learning to stand up for yourself will help you take charge of your life, believe in your own power, and embolden you to reach for your dreams. The stronger you feel, the stronger you will become.
Your physical appearance like head held high, shoulders back-will help you to speak up for your rights.
9. Accept compliments gracefully
When someone offers you a compliment, they’re saying that they’ve observed and assessed a praiseworthy quality in you. Surely this will enhance your confidence level.
Graciously accepting compliments can be a challenge because the compliment may be acceptable of rejectable according to your choice.
Getting a nice compliment can make you feel great. But when you deflect and devalue the compliment instead of absorbing it, you also deflect the positive boost it could have given your self-esteem.
Enjoy the compliment for your benefit of upgrading the saturation level.
10. Take pride in yourself
A man must take pride in himself.
He should stand his ground and is firm in his beliefs. He cannot be pushed around by the world or controlled. He is self-reliant, he is independent, he is free of his will.
Take pride in yourself, take pride in who you are, take pride in your race, take pride in your heritage, take pride in being a man, take pride in standing strong, and fighting against the world around you. while others are decaying you are growing stronger every day. Take pride in this, take pride in yourself, and take pride in being a man.
All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence, and then success is sure.” — Mark Twain
Originally published at http://learnering4persona.com on September 13, 2020.